When Reality Not As A Dream ...

Many people who feel frustrated

because they do not fit reality

with dreams.

For example, there is a child

want to attend the University of A, but

in fact the cost is not sufficient.

Or, those who migrated to the big city,

dream about getting a job

national and even international-class,

but in fact obtained only

mediocre job & what it is.

There is also a businessman, who may

expects profit rise 10 times,

even bankruptcy.

What we expect, sometimes

does not match reality. So what

should we do?

Here are 3 steps or tips

Bertus do when a dream can not

in accordance with reality:

1. Act always in a flexible

    and dynamic

If you really want to reach

success, it is necessary * readiness *

to be able to act in a flexible

and dynamically to any changes

happened.

Now, I'll make an analogy

simple ...

When a storm or hurricane

large, it is not rare to see trees

which has a huge trunk

fallen! What cause?

Because they not hold the load

received.

But try to peek at the bamboo! Because

a flexible trunk, the bamboo can

flexible to move in any direction, and

rarely fallen!

Well, so anything with us! If we

acting and thinking as well as dynamic

flexible, then we will be more resistant

in facing the challenges and

changes and problems that come.

2. Think that THIS IS the best

    for us!

When reality does not match

dream, believe that this is

best for us. We never

know the scenario that has been assigned him.

Because, everything that according to

our logic, can be precisely

vice versa in the eyes of God!

Think always positive for any

that happens to you. Do not

let one failure get you

disappointed, frustrated and let alone to

protracted.

You know what I do if

there is a dream or my wish

not accomplished? I used to say:

"Come Bertus, you no need to be disappointed,

do not ask me why, it is GOOD for you!

Now you listen carefully, God

will replace them with BETTER!

God knows you better and wiser person.

Your life is full of abundance, and you

was born to be a winner pobud! "



I used to say in front of the mirror

with confidence, certainly when

I was alone! hehe ... It works for me! :-)

  You also may try later ;-)

What I did on top of that

is 'affirmation'.



Affirmations are positive words

spoken over and over again and is believed to

form a positive image to reduce

negative attitudes in ourselves.

The words can we make this affirmation /

design itself, and then can be spoken

verbally or in the liver. According to the experts

Hynotherapy, affirmations that will be 'captured'

by our subconscious.

And if it continually spoken & with

full confidence, then we ARE or

WILL be like it is, the

we say! In other words, affirmations

the same as prayer.

Okay, now the next! :-)

Although at this time what we expect

not in accordance with the dreams, but we

must ....

3. Stay Prepare MENTAL WINNERS!

When we experience failure, more

instropeksi good self than

blame destiny. Who knows, we

is not yet ready to be a winner! :-)

It may be that success will only make

we become arrogant, and because so

unfortunately, God gives us, He does not

His willing servant of sin. :-)

Every victory is better

initiated from each of our sweat! Will

better if we win it

get step by step.

Many successful people, but then

they fell. There are rising again,

There is not. Twists of life each

humans are not the same.

But remember, a chance to win

It is always open to anyone,

without exception!

Lucky and win it really does not

innumerable from God, still

many of which hang in the sky! :-)

Now how you live!

Is willing to achieve it? or expect

down by itself?

I recommend, do not ever choose

the second :-)

We all know that the name

victory is often owned by

they are ... ill never stop trying!