Many people who feel frustrated
because they do not fit reality
with dreams.
For example, there is a child
want to attend the University of A, but
in fact the cost is not sufficient.
Or, those who migrated to the big city,
dream about getting a job
national and even international-class,
but in fact obtained only
mediocre job & what it is.
There is also a businessman, who may
expects profit rise 10 times,
even bankruptcy.
What we expect, sometimes
does not match reality. So what
should we do?
Here are 3 steps or tips
Bertus do when a dream can not
in accordance with reality:
1. Act always in a flexible
and dynamic
If you really want to reach
success, it is necessary * readiness *
to be able to act in a flexible
and dynamically to any changes
happened.
Now, I'll make an analogy
simple ...
When a storm or hurricane
large, it is not rare to see trees
which has a huge trunk
fallen! What cause?
Because they not hold the load
received.
But try to peek at the bamboo! Because
a flexible trunk, the bamboo can
flexible to move in any direction, and
rarely fallen!
Well, so anything with us! If we
acting and thinking as well as dynamic
flexible, then we will be more resistant
in facing the challenges and
changes and problems that come.
2. Think that THIS IS the best
for us!
When reality does not match
dream, believe that this is
best for us. We never
know the scenario that has been assigned him.
Because, everything that according to
our logic, can be precisely
vice versa in the eyes of God!
Think always positive for any
that happens to you. Do not
let one failure get you
disappointed, frustrated and let alone to
protracted.
You know what I do if
there is a dream or my wish
not accomplished? I used to say:
"Come Bertus, you no need to be disappointed,
do not ask me why, it is GOOD for you!
Now you listen carefully, God
will replace them with BETTER!
God knows you better and wiser person.
Your life is full of abundance, and you
was born to be a winner pobud! "
I used to say in front of the mirror
with confidence, certainly when
I was alone! hehe ... It works for me! :-)
You also may try later ;-)
What I did on top of that
is 'affirmation'.
Affirmations are positive words
spoken over and over again and is believed to
form a positive image to reduce
negative attitudes in ourselves.
The words can we make this affirmation /
design itself, and then can be spoken
verbally or in the liver. According to the experts
Hynotherapy, affirmations that will be 'captured'
by our subconscious.
And if it continually spoken & with
full confidence, then we ARE or
WILL be like it is, the
we say! In other words, affirmations
the same as prayer.
Okay, now the next! :-)
Although at this time what we expect
not in accordance with the dreams, but we
must ....
3. Stay Prepare MENTAL WINNERS!
When we experience failure, more
instropeksi good self than
blame destiny. Who knows, we
is not yet ready to be a winner! :-)
It may be that success will only make
we become arrogant, and because so
unfortunately, God gives us, He does not
His willing servant of sin. :-)
Every victory is better
initiated from each of our sweat! Will
better if we win it
get step by step.
Many successful people, but then
they fell. There are rising again,
There is not. Twists of life each
humans are not the same.
But remember, a chance to win
It is always open to anyone,
without exception!
Lucky and win it really does not
innumerable from God, still
many of which hang in the sky! :-)
Now how you live!
Is willing to achieve it? or expect
down by itself?
I recommend, do not ever choose
the second :-)
We all know that the name
victory is often owned by
they are ... ill never stop trying!
