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Tuesday, January 11, 2011

Decide Yarn It

Decide Yarn It!

Written by: Anne Ahira

The success is determined by the size

our beliefs to gain the victory!

There is a saying ...

What were we thinking, that's
is happening, or will occur.

Therefore ... train themselves, liver, and

mind to always respond

only on positive things!

Train he continuously ...

not only for a moment, but sustainable ...

all the time!

"A piece of thread is actually just

exist in your mind! "

There is a true story about an elephant.

Since childhood he had chained his legs

with a chain as far as 4 meters.

What happens when the chain

replaced by a thread?

Elephants were still around & not

dare to step out of the area

circle 4 meters it!

From this story, what lessons

can we take?

Sorry, I do not mean to equate

ourselves with an elephant. :-)

But it can be, we also have

shackled with a rope

that binds us!
We do not dare get out of the zone

considered convenient. Although true,

we can do a lot of great things

of our expectations!

Let us be honest to yourself,

how many actual opportunities

present, passing in front of you, but

  You do not care about?

You might consider the opportunity

'Too high' for you, and

felt did not belong there.

Or maybe you even feel

able to do that yet

have never tried it?

We all know, all things

we think 'so great', often

not always as we

imagine.

Or things that we think is difficult,

sometimes actually very easy!

There are two keys in this regard:

1. You will be able to if you think you can

2. You will fail if you think fail

So, do not blame anyone if

success has not approached us.

Therefore, the main factor lies in

ourselves.

Therefore, pay attention to

carefully, and ask yourself,

Is there a thread that has been

handcuff ourselves for this?

If yes, then immediately to disconnect

yarn it!

Try to move forward from the circle

that we've made and have been

handcuff ourselves!

Opportunity is actually always present

anytime. However, because we always

Just close your eyes, ears, and mind

us, the opportunity will be missed

just like that!

If you still hesitate to

step, try to train it

little by little. And if you're already convinced, then immediately run fast,

shackled out of you!

If it's like this, then who else

who benefited, if not your own? :-)

Stock Success Named "Self-Confidence"

Stock Success Named "SC"

Written by: Anne Ahira

We are the KING of mind
our own.

Therefore always Seek
positive prejudice, and avoid negative thoughts.
As the 'king' is good, we
must be able to choose pobud
positive response, although in the middle
worst environment though!

Never say or feel
'I'm not worthy ..' Aspiring citalah
great ... Think ahead!

We were not created to be
lost, but was created to
gives the victory! :-)

The problem of confidence crisis (crisis

PD) often become one

classic problem experienced by

some people.

Although seemingly simple, yet

if left to linger, PD crisis

could be a boomerang itself. One

only, the potential that exists within

we will be hampered.

Now let us review the extent to which

self-confidence can influence

affect one's success.

When attending a seminar or a

meeting for example, many of

we are more comfortable choosing a

sitting in the back than in front.

The reason is simple .. sometimes "Afraid

Asked at the speaker ". lol

But when the seminar began, which

sit at the back is often so

not so visible or audible

well what is spoken by

obstructed by the speaker because

those who sit in front!

Ever feel like that? :-)

Or when we are still a student,

if we include those shy

to raise their hands and give

we know the true answer for

question asked our teacher? :-)

Now, let us find out what

that cause people like to feel inferior or

less PD! Here are a few reasons:

1. Often think that 'no-no'

    about themselves!

"Just when I'm high, I want dong

so famous models such as the Luna Maya!

... But unfortunately, I'm short nih & item,

longish my teeth again!"

You, never looking

one eye on us. All who

God's grace we have is a definite

no benefit.

Try to read again the first article

I once sent with the title
"Appreciate what we have." :-)

2. "Fear of One" can make us

     not advanced.

If we are always afraid of the

do something, then surely we

will never be successful.

Do not you be afraid of! Because

error is actually a step

start toward success.

Great figures of world

findings we now enjoy,

they used to do a lot of

error. However, they continue and

keep trying to improve

mistake to create a

great discoveries, such as lamp

incandescent, airplanes, Google :-)

And still many others!

Therefore, never be afraid

wrong!

3. If we associate with cowards,

    automatically we will also be a coward

You, the association can affect

our personality. If you are in

environment that the majority do not have

sense of PD is high, then do not expect Bertus

be PD.

Rest assured, a little more, our PD

strongly influenced by the environment

where we are. Therefore,

good-looking friends or pandailah

association that has trust

high.

  You also must have heard
the term "If you want rich, Associate
with rich people. "

That is, it does not mean that we

no money can lean on

them and borrow money! :-) But the purpose of

we are able to absorb 'way

thinking 'those who can make

they become rich!

4. No need to influence opinion

    others

We are often affected by

other people's opinions. Unfortunately, no

every opinion is true. Opinions or

welcome input from outside our

capacity. Our task is to * process *,

as well as for self-evaluation.

If there is an opinion that just makes

  You become a retreat and not

successful, then you need to reject it,

without needing to be affected by the opinion

it.

In short, get rid of far-away feeling

insecure in ourselves. You do not

need to fret with the shortage.

If there is a mistake, stay

Bertus correct the mistakes made, and

make a mistake it as an experience.



The last but not least ...
Always enrich yourself with knowledge.

Because with a lot of science,

Automatically we lack in anything else could

offset by other advantages that we have!

So many people who do not

realize the 'sleeping giant' in

himself. Tremendous potential and great

often overlooked by the natural mind

itself, that is feeling insecure!

So, believe am left! For all potential

awesome that you have * out * and

no longer constrained! :-)

Tuesday, January 4, 2011

When Reality Not As A Dream ...

Many people who feel frustrated

because they do not fit reality

with dreams.

For example, there is a child

want to attend the University of A, but

in fact the cost is not sufficient.

Or, those who migrated to the big city,

dream about getting a job

national and even international-class,

but in fact obtained only

mediocre job & what it is.

There is also a businessman, who may

expects profit rise 10 times,

even bankruptcy.

What we expect, sometimes

does not match reality. So what

should we do?

Here are 3 steps or tips

Bertus do when a dream can not

in accordance with reality:

1. Act always in a flexible

    and dynamic

If you really want to reach

success, it is necessary * readiness *

to be able to act in a flexible

and dynamically to any changes

happened.

Now, I'll make an analogy

simple ...

When a storm or hurricane

large, it is not rare to see trees

which has a huge trunk

fallen! What cause?

Because they not hold the load

received.

But try to peek at the bamboo! Because

a flexible trunk, the bamboo can

flexible to move in any direction, and

rarely fallen!

Well, so anything with us! If we

acting and thinking as well as dynamic

flexible, then we will be more resistant

in facing the challenges and

changes and problems that come.

2. Think that THIS IS the best

    for us!

When reality does not match

dream, believe that this is

best for us. We never

know the scenario that has been assigned him.

Because, everything that according to

our logic, can be precisely

vice versa in the eyes of God!

Think always positive for any

that happens to you. Do not

let one failure get you

disappointed, frustrated and let alone to

protracted.

You know what I do if

there is a dream or my wish

not accomplished? I used to say:

"Come Bertus, you no need to be disappointed,

do not ask me why, it is GOOD for you!

Now you listen carefully, God

will replace them with BETTER!

God knows you better and wiser person.

Your life is full of abundance, and you

was born to be a winner pobud! "



I used to say in front of the mirror

with confidence, certainly when

I was alone! hehe ... It works for me! :-)

  You also may try later ;-)

What I did on top of that

is 'affirmation'.



Affirmations are positive words

spoken over and over again and is believed to

form a positive image to reduce

negative attitudes in ourselves.

The words can we make this affirmation /

design itself, and then can be spoken

verbally or in the liver. According to the experts

Hynotherapy, affirmations that will be 'captured'

by our subconscious.

And if it continually spoken & with

full confidence, then we ARE or

WILL be like it is, the

we say! In other words, affirmations

the same as prayer.

Okay, now the next! :-)

Although at this time what we expect

not in accordance with the dreams, but we

must ....

3. Stay Prepare MENTAL WINNERS!

When we experience failure, more

instropeksi good self than

blame destiny. Who knows, we

is not yet ready to be a winner! :-)

It may be that success will only make

we become arrogant, and because so

unfortunately, God gives us, He does not

His willing servant of sin. :-)

Every victory is better

initiated from each of our sweat! Will

better if we win it

get step by step.

Many successful people, but then

they fell. There are rising again,

There is not. Twists of life each

humans are not the same.

But remember, a chance to win

It is always open to anyone,

without exception!

Lucky and win it really does not

innumerable from God, still

many of which hang in the sky! :-)

Now how you live!

Is willing to achieve it? or expect

down by itself?

I recommend, do not ever choose

the second :-)

We all know that the name

victory is often owned by

they are ... ill never stop trying!